Family-of functioning,self-differentiation, and relationship satisfaction: a mediation model among engaged and married individuals

Abstract

This study aimed at examining the mediating role of self- differentiation in the relationship between family-of-origin functionality and romantic relationship satisfaction. The participants consisted of engaged individuals preparing for marriage and individuals in the first five years of the marriage relationship. Data were collected from 532 participants through the Family Adaptability and Cohesion Scale-IV, Differentiation of Self Inventory, and Happiness in Close Relationships Scale. As a result, family-of-origin experiences predicted relationship satisfaction, and the individuals with high family-of-origin functionality had a high level of satisfaction from their romantic relationships. In addition, a high family of functionality supports individuals to grow up as autonomous individuals and enables them to differentiate themselves from the family. On the other hand, the current study did not support the hypothesis that as the levels of self- differentiation increase, the level of romantic relationship satisfaction will increase. As a culture-specific finding, behaving in a way that protects one's self-boundaries is not perceived as one of the expectations in the development of romantic relationships and harmony among Turkish couples. The results were discussed within the framework of the relevant literature, and some suggestions were offered to practitioners and researchers.